Advice to reduce (factor?) 3 similar actions into one

Question

in this card gave I have 3 cards in hand and I want to place one on the board. So far this works well :

var jouerM1J1 = document.querySelector(".j1-main1");
jouerM1J1.addEventListener("click", () => {
  if (pioche1J1 !== null && tourJ1 == true) {
    j1EmplCarteJoue.appendChild(pioche1J1.getHTML())
    j1pli = pioche1J1
    j1main1.innerHTML = '';
    pioche1J1 = null
    cartesPosees++
    tourJ1 = false
    tourJ2 = true
    aquileTour()
    queJouerOrdi()
  }
  if (cartesPosees == 2) {
    comparaison()
  }
});

var jouerM2J1 = document.querySelector(".j1-main2");
jouerM2J1.addEventListener("click", () => {
  if (pioche2J1 !== null && tourJ1 == true) {
    j1EmplCarteJoue.appendChild(pioche2J1.getHTML())
    j1pli = pioche2J1
    j1main2.innerHTML = ''
    pioche2J1 = null
    cartesPosees++
    tourJ1 = false
    tourJ2 = true
    aquileTour()
    queJouerOrdi()
  }
  if (cartesPosees == 2) {
    comparaison()
  }
});

var jouerM3J1 = document.querySelector(".j1-main3");
jouerM3J1.addEventListener("click", () => {
  if (pioche3J1 !== null && tourJ1 == true) {
    j1EmplCarteJoue.appendChild(pioche3J1.getHTML())
    j1pli = pioche3J1
    j1main3.innerHTML = ''
    pioche3J1 = null
    cartesPosees++
    tourJ1 = false
    tourJ2 = true
    aquileTour()
    queJouerOrdi()
  }
  if (cartesPosees == 2) {
    comparaison()
  }
});

As you can see it's redundant. But as a beginner, I don't know much. So I tried to make it work with this, to no avail:

var J1joue = document.querySelector(".mainJoueur");
J1joue.addEventListener("click", () => {
  j1EmplCarteJoue.appendChild(cartejoueJ1.getHTML())
  j1pli = cartejoueJ1

  if (j1main1.innerHTML === j1EmplCarteJoue.innerHTML) {
    j1main1.innerHTML = ''
    pioche1J1 = null
  } else if (j1main2.innerHTML === j1EmplCarteJoue.innerHTML) {
    j1main2.innerHTML = ''
    pioche2J1 = null
  } else {
    j1main3.innerHTML = ''
    pioche3J1 = null
  }
  cartejoueJ1 = null
  cartesPosees++
  tourJ1 = false
  tourJ2 = true
  aquileTour()
  queJouerOrdi()

  if (cartesPosees === 2) {
    comparaison()
  }
});

I get: "Uncaught TypeError: Cannot read properties of undefined (reading 'getHTML') at HTMLDivElement". Can someone help me do better? Cheers!